When someone hurts us, rejects us or disappoints us...our flesh wants to expose them. We want others to know how bad they are. We want others to know they are wrong and we are right.
But...love covers. "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins." (I Peter 4:8) I can't do this without the Spirit of God doing it through me.
Here's what God has told me to do: When I give you an idea of how to love, do it quickly. Otherwise it will be stolen and you'll lose your opportunity.
A lie I believed: To love, you must have relationship. God never commanded relationship, but He did command love. When I questioned God about this, He quietly told me in my heart, "I don't have a relationship with everyone, yet I love them all." This was totally freeing for me. I was pursuing relationship thinking it was the only way I could love. Now I'm loving whether I ever have a relationship...or not.