Friday, December 23, 2022

Receive



“Therefore receive one another, just as Christ also received us, to the glory of God.”  Romans 15:7. 

How hard is it for you to receive someone? What if that person has wronged you? What if that person doesn’t do things the way you want them to? What if they never meet your expectations? What if there’s a sin in their life they never overcome? What if they never ask for your forgiveness? What if they’re hateful to you or to someone you love? What if they disappoint you again and again? What if…??

I’m guilty. But you know what happens if I don’t receive someone because of their behavior? I become their judge. Instead of receiving, I resist them. And that’s not how Christ received us.  

Jesus received us when we were in sin. We were ugly. We’d wronged him. We’d disappointed him. We didn’t measure up. We were full of hate, resentment, bad attitudes, bad language, bad actions, and selfishness. We were just bad. And yet…he received us. 

My receiving you should not be based on what you do. I need to receive you because Christ did. His goodness leads us to repentance. Mine should, too. 
 
Or do you despise the riches of His goodness, forbearance, and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?”
Romans 2:4

Wednesday, December 21, 2022

Give Place to Wrath



Isn’t it interesting that you can read a Bible verse many times and one day you think, “What does that even mean?!”  This is that verse today:

“Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is mine. I will repay,” says the Lord. 

What does it mean to “give place to wrath?” I had to look it up in Blue Letter Bible app (a handy tool that has Greek and Hebrew meanings). “Give place” means “to make space for or to create room for.” When someone comes to us full of anger which erupts all over us, we’re to create room for that. Isn’t that interesting?

This is God’s way…not the world’s way (especially not today)! The Lord then goes on to tell us HE will repay. He’ll handle it. He will avenge us. All we have to do is make space for the anger. In the very next breath, Jesus  tells us to feed our enemy (he isn’t afraid to call them what they are) or give them a drink. This will heap coals of fire on his head—or he’ll remember his sins. 

This passage ISN’T saying we should make room for an abusive relationship. This is a person coming to you “loaded for bear”—convinced they’re right and you’re wrong. And they unload in anger. Make room for that. Don’t respond. Leave it hanging in that space. Meet a need in their life later and they’ll remember their sin…and hopefully repent.  

God’s way isn’t our way. It’s higher than our way. What happens if we respond with the same level of anger as theirs? They walk away feeling justified and will probably never be convinced they were wrong. We didn’t make space for God to work. We handled it…badly. 

Do it God’s way. Give Him room to work.  

Wednesday, December 14, 2022

A Steadman Christmas Blizzard Pt.5



“Merry, I can’t call an ambulance…we don’t have cell service! Besides, they couldn’t make it out here—we’re having a blizzard, remember?” Of course I remembered! I wasn’t so hysterical I’d forgotten that! I just didn’t want to have baby #4 in a barn during said blizzard. But it looked like that’s exactly what was going to happen. I’d never had labor come on so quickly or decidedly. 

Caleb rushed to make me a bed of hay and threw the blanket over it and settled me on it. I yelled, “I need to push!” I grabbed his hand and dug in with my nails—and push, I did.  My only consolation was that Caleb had helped deliver every baby animal on our farm. And I knew God was with us. Caleb took the walkie talkie from me and told Katy we were fine, but we were in the process of something for our family. I’m not sure she understood what that meant, but I also knew Caleb didn’t want her worried and didn’t want the boys getting overly excited.  One more push…

I was crying unashamedly. We were both staring at Sadie Belle Steadman. Her name means “Princess-Beautiful-Farmer.” She was perfect, pink, and beautiful. “A GIRL!” Caleb said over and over.  “Who would have ever dreamed we’d have a girl?” Surprisingly, I was warm. Maybe it was all the work I’d done. But I honestly think I was covered by God’s glory. 

Caleb called Katy, “Uh, Katy. Something special has gone on out here in the barn. Could you tell the boys to get bundled up?  I want them to come see. Caleb had swaddled Sadie in my scarf and covered me with my coat. Then he opened the barn door to a beautiful starry night.  When had the blizzard stopped? Caleb went to the house and led three little shepherds to the barn. The look of wonder on their faces is something I will always treasure in my heart. 

Each boy got to take a turn holding their little sister. Caleb was already training the boys in how to care for a little girl. “Guys, little girls are so special. God has given you a responsibility as Sadie’s big brothers to guard and protect her. She’s a treasure just like you! But she requires a gentle hand. I’m so glad God gave Sadie three big brothers to help her,” he told them. 

We saw a shining light inside the barn. “A star!” Matthew yelled. But when Caleb peered out the door, he saw a snow plow with blinking lights and an ambulance behind making its way to our house.  “Boys, take care of your mom and Sadie while I go see what’s going on.”  David came and held my hand while Henry and Matthew stood guard over us. 

Sadie and I were loaded into the ambulance and headed towards the hospital. Dr. Manning had asked for special consideration to be made for Katy to get to the hospital as soon as the snow plow could safely get out. But once Katy knew of the miracle birth in the barn, she insisted we go first. Caleb and my three shepherds would follow as soon as Katy was loaded. 

Sadie wasn’t born on Christmas Day.  But her birth seemed just as miraculous as that of our Savior’s—just different. In fact, before we left the barn that quiet night, Caleb gathered our three shepherd sons near and he prayed over us, “Father, thank You for this miraculous birth in our barn.  It’s one none of us will ever forget! Thank you for taking care of Merry and bringing Sadie to us so perfectly. We Steadman men promise to cherish and care for these beautiful women in our lives. Equip us to be the men of God You want us to be. Guide us just like You guided the Wise Men in the Bible. Let the Steadman Family be the light of the world and follow You closely. In Jesus’ name, amen.” I took one last look at Caleb, Henry, Matthew, David, and baby Sadie.  And I tucked that snapshot in my heart to hold there for the rest of my life.  

The End. 

Monday, December 12, 2022

A Steadman Christmas Blizzard Pt.4



The worst blizzard in the history of Sunrise, Texas. We didn’t even need a weatherman to give us that info—which he couldn’t have anyway with zero electricity. It was day two of the blizzard and Caleb was shoveling his way to the barn which was invisible in the whiteout. I was so thankful he’d strung rope from the house to the barn for this worst case scenario. I was also grateful I’d gotten him some thick Carhartt overalls and a matching jacket for Christmas.  He was now wearing them as he shoveled. This wind and snow were nothing to mess with. It’s like we were living out the Little House on the Prairie books I’d read to the boys. I was just hoping every animal in the barn was alive. 

In the meantime, I’d helped Katy get situated for the day.  It appeared David had completely attached himself to her. He’d brought her a nativity Christmas book and she was reading it to the boys. I pressed my hand against my aching back as I got up to go do the dishes while everyone was occupied. The boys ran into the kitchen yelling over one another, “Can we be shepherds? Can we dress up? We want to see the angel and not be afraid!” So many voices at once created the perfect storm—which was equal to the one outside. So we all trooped upstairs to find robes, scarves, and sandals. David grabbed his stuffed “Lambie” which he still slept with at night. “This can be the lamb that sleeps by Jesus,” he said. For the next hour, they playacted being shepherds tending their flocks at night when the angel of the Lord appeared.  Then they journeyed to see baby Jesus and were appropriately awestruck. Katy gave stage directions from the couch. I used that time to see if I could see Caleb from the second floor window—but couldn’t. I tried calling him on his cell phone, but heard it ringing in our room. So I began cleaning the boys’ rooms and putting toys away. I saw their walkie talkies and took them with me thinking they might come in handy. I even found fresh batteries for each of them. 

I heard the boys shouting Caleb’s name. He’d finished shoveling all the way to the barn and the animals were all just fine. He’d fed them and broken the water and left them with new hay. Once dad saw the boys’ costumes, he asked them, “Well who wants to bundle up after lunch and go to the barn and make shepherd’s staffs?” Every boys’ hand was in the air and it felt as if the air had been sucked out of the room with all of their whooping! Caleb looked at me and grinned. I knew he was giving me a much-needed break.  

Grilled cheeses for everyone and the boys were bundled up and gone. Caleb had stoked the fire and Katy had settled in with a good book. I went to lay down. I was determined to be well-rested when this baby came. But I couldn’t get comfortable.

The boys came in with their new shepherd staffs and showed Katy & I how perfectly they’d sanded them. “I sanded and sanded this part,” Henry said, “and then I helped Matthew and David sand theirs!” Big brother pride was popping out of his eyes.  Then they had to show dad—with new shepherd’s staffs in hand—their play. We laughed as Matthew tripped over his robe in his haste to see the new baby Jesus.  Then dad took the staffs away as the boys started a sword fight at the end.  

Caleb went to feed the animals after dinner.  “Please take your cell phone this time,” I begged.  “When I couldn’t see you out the window and then when it took so long to shovel, I was worried. I want to be able to know what’s going on.” So he did. The boys were on their sleeping bags in front of the fire playing Candy Land—still in their shepherd’s costumes sans the staffs. 

Caleb had been gone about ten minutes when my cell phone rang. I heard him say, “Merry, I need you…” *static.* The phone was dead. I tried calling twice but my phone was now saying, “No service.” I went into the living room as I was putting on my coat, scarf, hat, boots, and gloves and tried to appear calm. “Katy, Caleb needs me in the barn.”  She knew. My eyes always gave me away. “Go—GO,” she said, “the boys and I will be fine. But take this throw and this blanket—you don’t know what he needs.” I remembered the walkie talkies! I ran to grab them and told Katy to call me if she needed me and I’d do the same. I told her if there was a need, she could send Henry out. ”Make sure Henry is bundled well if we need him. And I promise to be careful,” I told her. 

I opened the door to wind and ice which cut across my face. I shielded myself with the blanket and stepped out. I was trying to be so careful, but my big belly just made everything awkward. I finally opened the door to the barn and said, “Caleb,” and my eyes got big and I doubled over. Caleb rushed to me and pulled me into  the barn and closed the door. I couldn’t move. A contraction hit so hard it took my breath away. 

“Caleb, I think the baby is coming.” I moaned.

Saturday, December 10, 2022

A Steadman Christmas Blizzard Pt.3



“CALEB!! It’s Katy Brown—on her horse!!” I was looking out the window as the blizzard continued to swirl over Steadman Farm and couldn’t believe my eyes! Why was Katy Brown, a widow and tough cattle rancher, riding a horse to our farm? Something had to be wrong. Caleb had already pulled on his boots and coat and was out the door to see why Katy was riding her prized horse, Willie, bareback in four feet of snow with very little visibility. Caleb was reaching up to help Katy off her horse and was struggling to get her in the house. Her leg was broken! What in the world? And how did she get on her horse?

Katy began answering questions after we got her inside and on the couch wrapped in blankets. Caleb had situated Willie in the barn and then dug out his old boot he’d worn when he’d sprained his ankle. It was a little big, but at least it would keep Katy’s leg stabilized.  She told us, “I’d gone to the barn to milk the cow and she was agitated. I was trying to figure out why when she kicked me. She’d never done that before. I knew my leg was broken—and that dadgum cow took off through the open barn door. I called Blayne and asked him to find her and milk her and lock her up.  He has one of those new-fangled snowmobiles, you know, and likes to use it at the drop of a hat.“ I couldn’t help but ask, “So why didn’t you ask Blayne to bring you here instead of climbing on your horse with a broken leg?” “I don’t trust those things! And I knew Caleb wouldn’t mind letting Willie stay in his barn,” she said. “Plus I knew I couldn’t manage on my own until this dadgum blizzard stopped.” “But how in the world did you get on your horse,” Caleb asked. “I’ve trained Willie to bow down to say his prayers,” Katy replied, “He bowed down, I climbed on.”  Ok. That made perfect sense. 

We’d given Katy some pain medication and she was snoring softly near the fire even though our home wasn’t quiet. The boys were running up and down the stairs and wielding their flashlights as swords. She was exhausted. Stew was simmering on the gas stove and Caleb and I had convened in the kitchen to discuss our new plans. There was no way we could get Katy to the doctor—so we called her doctor and made him aware of her condition. He told us to ice her leg several times a day and to keep her medicated—even if it was only with Tylenol. We’d meet at the ER when the blizzard stopped and we could all travel again. In the meantime, Blayne would help her out with her milk cow and cattle on his trusty snowmobile. Thank goodness our cell phones were still working! And thank goodness Caleb had invested in a solar phone charger. 

The stew and cornbread had hit the spot for all of us. We were gathered around the fire with our sleeping bags and pillows. Without electricity, the fireplace had become our central living space. Caleb had filled an air mattress for me to sleep on since he said I “was great with child.” I was grateful…but I didn’t know how much it was going to help my aching back. It just would not stop hurting—and hot baths were a thing of the past with no electricity. Caleb was reading Luke’s account of Jesus’ birth to all of us. He read, “And she brought forth her firstborn Son, and wrapped Him in swaddling cloths, and laid him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn. Now there were in the same country shepherds living out in the fields, keeping watch over their flock by night. And behold an Angel of the Lord stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were greatly afraid.”  Henry interrupted, “I wouldn’t be afraid! I wish I’d been there.” Matthew and David chimed in with their, “Yeah!” “We wouldn’t be afraid either!” Caleb didn’t finish reading Luke but spent some time talking about shepherds and their responsibilities and what it would really be like if an Angel of the Lord appeared to us. And then Caleb used an old trick he’d learned from his youth minister at camp when trying to get a room full of boys asleep at night. He prayed a really long (and yet, heartfelt) prayer until every boy was asleep. Even Katy had fallen asleep. Caleb and I quietly made our way to the kitchen. 

Caleb held me in his arms and gently rubbed my back. Tears were filling my eyes and rolling down my cheeks.  When he bent to kiss me, he pulled away and asked, “What’s wrong?” I could hardly get the words out but finally said, “Oh I don’t know…maybe I’m 8 1/2 months pregnant, we’re stuck in our house in a blizzard with three rambunctious boys, now we have the responsibility of Katy, it’s almost Christmas, and my back hurts! It never hurt like this in any of my other pregnancies.” And I couldn’t hold the convulsive crying back any longer.  Caleb sat down and pulled me into his lap. He gently told me, “Merry, I love you. I’m so sorry your back hurts—you’re doing too much! Tomorrow, the boys and I will cook breakfast. You stay in your little bed and get some extra sleep for you and this baby. We’re going to make it through this, I promise.  Praise God we have a warm house and three healthy, rambunctious boys. Praise God Katy got to us safely and we have room for her and can help her. And praise God you’re healthy and great with child.  Pretty soon we’ll have another baby to hold in our arms! Our life is pretty perfect in spite of this blizzard. And just think of the stories we’ll have to tell our grandchildren!” Caleb always knew how to make me laugh. The crisis was over—for tonight. And I really thought I could sleep in spite of having an air mattress for a bed. 

I got up and kissed my husband. I was grateful. Grateful I had Caleb by my side through any storm of life. We held hands and walked into the living room—and saw the most amazing sight. The fire was glowing; it’s light was reflecting on the ornaments on the Christmas tree. Two little boys were snug in their sleeping bags near the tree. But David had moved his sleeping bag next to the couch where Katy was sleeping and had his hand in hers.  

“Glory to God in the highest. And on earth, peace, goodwill toward men.”

Thursday, December 8, 2022

A Steadman Christmas Blizzard Pt.2



My eyes were still closed and I hadn’t stretched or moved in my warm snuggly bed. It was that delicious in-between moment I treasure. But I felt a small, warm breath next to my ear and heard David whisper, “Mommy, it’s shnowing!” I smiled before my eyes popped open. “It is?” I asked. “Show me, David!” His little grin appeared and he took my hand and led me to the window. Sure enough—it was shnowing. 

It snowed slowly at first and caused Steadman Farms to look like a winter wonderland. It was pristine as it fell without any wind to cause drifts. After we went downstairs, Caleb told the boys, “Boots and saddles, boys! We’ve got cows and horses to feed and I need your help.” Every Steadman male squirmed as they put arms in sleeves, feet in boots, and hands in mittens. But they were dressed and I was looking forward to a 30-minute reprieve. The boys whooped and hollered as they ran out into the snow. I watched until the first snowball was thrown and turned to start breakfast.  Then I hoped to put my feet up a few minutes. 

Caleb was determined to teach the boys to love farming at a young age. So everything he did with them was a teachable moment and he made them do actual chores. We believed it was healthy for children to help support the family enterprise with age-appropriate hard work. Henry loved to fork hay to the animals and the twins took turns pouring water into troughs—and all over themselves. Caleb later told me that the twins teeth were chattering (mostly because they’d gotten themselves wet) and began asking to go to the house early. “Boys, we can’t go in until all the chores are done. And we have to stay together to make it through the snow and not fall,” Caleb told them. Henry replied, “I don’t care if I fall—I’d just make a snow angel on the ground!” And then they were all clammering, “Can we make snow angels?” The animals were all ok.  

That was the last of the tame and gentle snow. By noon, the wind arrived and we were being pummeled by fierce snow. Frosty wouldn’t have stayed out in it! After lunch, Caleb told the boys, “It’s nap time, boys. You need some rest and Mom & I need to make some phone calls. So no getting up. If you can’t sleep, you can read a book. Give me a BIG hug before you go up.”  Those boys loved books. I suspected each boy would read until their tired eyes drooped.  

I could tell Caleb was getting nervous. We hadn’t had a storm like this in…well, ever.  The first person Caleb called was Jake Leathers, the man who’d trained him in farming. Jake told him, “Caleb, we’ve done all we can to prepare. Now it’s in the good Lord’s hands. I suggest you make sure you’ve got enough firewood by the back door so it’s easy to get to. We just need to pray no pipes burst and no animals die.” Caleb put on his coat and went out to heed Jake’s advice. And while he was out, he checked on the animals.  “So far, so good,” he told me when he came in. 

Feet were pounding on the stairs as three little boys ran in squealing, “Can we build a snowman?” Caleb had to break the news, “Sorry guys! The snow is coming too hard and too fast. It’s not safe. I’m sure we’ll get to build a snowman soon, but not today.” Instead they helped their dad stoke the fire and Matthew asked, “Can we make popcorn in the fire bowl thingy?” So Matthew got to help with the first round of popcorn while the other boys helped me make hot chocolate for everyone. This was cozy. As I sat down, I thought, “I really must have overdone it yesterday racing from one grocery store to the next trying to find everything I needed.” My neck was tense and my back seemed to be having spasms. It felt good to sit down. I decided to take a hot bath later. The boys were tossing popcorn in the air to see how many dad could catch.  He was pretty good at this game—he loved popcorn. We could see the snow, watch the roaring fire, enjoy the company of one another, and hear the eerie wind howl. And then…

The lights went out. 

A Steadman Christmas Blizzard Pt.1



“Henry, NOOOOOO!!!” I tried to stop my six-year-old son from tracking manure in from the barn—it was an almost daily occurrence. That boy is his father’s son! His love for animals, fields, tractors—and preaching—filled our home daily. Fortunately, the home we’d purchased from Mr. Troyer was large enough to contain every object Henry brought in from his excursions around the farm. Unfortunately, his twin brothers caught the brunt of the daily sermons Henry preached to assert his big brother status. 

The twins had come three years after Henry was born. And they came in this order:
Matthew Zechariah Steadman (5 lbs. 4 oz.) and
David Jeremiah Steadman (4 lbs. 3 oz.). Caleb and I were careful in choosing our children’s names because we believed their spiritual DNA was wrapped up in those names. Matthew’s name means: Gift of God—God remembers—Farmer. David’s name means: Beloved—God is lifted high—Farmer. They were born while Caleb was trying to get the cotton planted that year, so my mom and Caleb’s mom took turns helping us out. I don’t ever remember being as sleep-deprived as I was in those early days. But…we survived!

Even though the twins are identical, their personalities are completely opposite. Matthew is the adventurer and learned to climb to the top of the fridge early. I walked outside one day and heard his little voice say, “Look at me, Mommy!”  He was hanging upside down from a tall tree branch. I tried not to gasp and make him fall. I never knew where I was going to find that boy! His laugh is as big as his heart. David, on the other hand, is quiet and easily entertained. Give him a toy he has to figure out and he is quiet for hours. He has such a gentle spirit—I have to make sure he isn’t overlooked by Caleb & I or overwhelmed by Henry & Matthew. If Matthew can’t engage his twin brother to go on an adventure, he’ll follow his big brother out the door while yelling, “Wait for ME!!”. Henry takes his job as big brother seriously. He’ll say, “Matthew, don’t pick up the big worms—you’re too little!!”  I never know what I’ll find in the pockets of those two on laundry day. 

All of the boys love riding in the tractor with their daddy. Caleb seldom takes all three. It’s just too crazy. But the boys get to take turns riding in the tractor and we often switch boys when we take lunch to daddy in the fields. Caleb is gentle yet firm with the boys. He wants them to learn to love the land like he does, but to also learn to respect each piece of machinery on our property. He often tells them, “God gave us these things to take care of them. We never misuse them or leave things out to rust. Always put everything back where you got it.” Matthew just has a hard time remembering. 

When Jason & Jennifer Wilson, our youth minister and his wife, come to our home with Jude, the noise level skyrockets!  Jude is just two weeks younger than the twins. Those three had given Miss Shirley even more gray hair while keeping them in the church nursery. Good thing she’d married George—she roped him into giving her a hand trying to tame those boys. She wasn’t shy either—she’d come to the back of the auditorium and tap her watch at Caleb if she’d had enough!

Jason told us when he dropped by, “You know that storm that’s pushing it’s way in? It’s been upgraded to a blizzard category!” Caleb and I looked at each other. I could tell he wasn’t surprised by that information and had been protecting me. I was instantly wondering how well-stocked we were with food and wood for the fireplace. But my BIGGEST worry was, “How will we get to the hospital?” I was pregnant again and due January 1–just two weeks away. This time, we both agreed we didn’t want to find out the sex of the baby. After three boys, we just assumed. I knew I was destined to be a “boy mom.” I packed a canister of Christmas cookies for Jason to take home and sat down to make out a list. I’d need to make a trip to the grocery store while Caleb went to string rope from the house to the barn with the help of his sons. We couldn’t afford to lose livestock during a blizzard—and they’d need food and water twice a day. The rope would guide Caleb in case of a whiteout. I needed to remember to get batteries for the boys’ flashlights! That always kept them entertained. And we certainly needed extra lights when our electricity went out—which happened with the slightest wind. My part-time preacher-husband, Caleb, planned to call church members and make sure everyone was ok and well-stocked—and to advise everyone we’d cancel church if a blizzard came. We would be ready. Christmas was coming…a blizzard was coming…and a baby was coming. If only baby #4 would wait until a blizzard melted. 

Wednesday, November 2, 2022

Submit



Have you ever gotten a “spanking from the Lord?” I did today. I was cleaning my garage and opened a tub which held some of my journals (I’ve journaled for about 40 years.)  My first thought was, “I should throw all of these away!”  But then I decided to read one before making that decision. 

I could have almost superimposed my current journal over this one. Circumstances were different (2011 was a HARD year!). But my response hadn’t changed much. Hence, the “spanking.”  

God was still telling me I needed to submit. That’s a word our culture seldom uses anymore. But to submit is to yield to those in authority. You won’t submit to earthly authority if you aren’t submitting to God. And unfortunately…submission isn’t my first response. 

After I read my journal from 2011, God told me, “You won’t change until you submit.” I can try to run from my problems and do things my way…or I can submit to God and change.  Those are the only two choices.  

Here’s the good news: God only disciplines us because He loves us and is committed to us. He wants to conform us to the image of His Son. And…He’s more concerned about our response than our circumstances. 

What are the chances that I would choose to read THIS journal today??  100%.  God is committed to change—especially changing me.  

I have to be honest. It’s really tempting to get rid of all of my journals. I’m afraid to read any more.  

Saturday, October 29, 2022

Dread



Do you have a sense of dread? Is there something or someone looming over you causing fear or anxiety? I mean…there’s enough going on in our world right now to fill us all with a sense of dread, right?

Dread could be so hidden that we don’t even recognize it for what it is. Is there a day of the week which fills you with anxiety? Do you get sweaty palms knowing you’ll see someone tomorrow? Are you stressed in a certain setting? Do the holidays fill you with dread? Are you anxious when you listen to the news? (I mean…who isn’t!)

God warned Isaiah (Isaiah 8) about a coming invasion by Assyria. He also told him not to join in with the conspiracy theories nor to be afraid of the threats. He said, “The LORD of hosts, Him you shall call holy; let Him be your fear, and let Him be your dread.”

I know that when I’m fearing something or someone, my eyes and my heart are in the wrong place. I’ve exalted them above God. I feel powerless and out of control. I’m afraid of how I’ll be affected by what someone else does. The truth is…I never had control. And I can’t control the actions of others. And God, who has control, is only allowing things in my life to strengthen me and change me.  

Satan delights seeing us fear and dread—it’s right where he wants us! If we fear, we won’t step out in obedience to God. Our courage has melted. We’ll be silent when we should speak up. We’ll hide instead of engaging in battle. 

We need to let God be our fear and our dread. If our eyes are on Him and we’re convinced of His strength and control, we can live free of fear, anxiety, and dread. There’s a great battle going on in our minds, isn’t there?

Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’
Isaiah 41:10

For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ,” 
II Corinthians 10:4-5

Friday, October 28, 2022

Rest



We live in a fast-paced world which is quickly spinning out of control. It’s imperative that we take time to rest—truly rest.  

But you know what I’ve found?  When I have a day to rest, my mind kicks in.  “I should be doing this. This would really be a good day to minister to Mrs. Widow.  I need to clean the bathroom. I’m wasting time sitting here. Etc., etc., etc.” My mind most often works against me. (And we know Satan loves to fill our mind with destructive thoughts as well!)

God knew our minds would try to control us. He knew we’d imagine scenarios we should take care of. He knew we’d ignore the rest we needed. So he told us, “Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;” 

We’re to do the work of casting down thoughts and imaginations (reasoning hostile to God).  God has commanded us to rest. (Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy—set apart to God.) He also gave us the promise of rest. (Hebrews 4:1) God gave us the example of rest by resting after He’d created the world and everything in it. We also know when our bodies are tired—we just have to acknowledge it. It may be that your spirit (mind, will, emotions) are tired. Are you resting and feeding them? You may have to take a step back and determine what kind of rest you need!

When is the last time you rested? Have you acknowledged you need rest—or do you just keep going? It also bears the question (for me), “Who am I seeking to please—God or man?”

We need rest. Now more than ever. 

Monday, October 24, 2022

Armor of God



I had a revelation recently. In Ephesians 6, when Paul was instructing believers to put on the armor of God so they could STAND…he was actually telling them in six different ways to be in the Word of God.  

The Belt of Truth. John 14:6. “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father but by me.” John 1:1. “In the beginning was the Word and the Word was with God and the Word was God.” Jesus=Truth=Word
•Breastplate of Righteousness. What is righteousness?  Right living. How do we know how to live “right?”  Psalm 119:172. “My tongue shall speak of your Word, for all your commandments are righteousness.” Righteousness=Word
•Sandals of the Gospel of Peace. We are to walk in the gospel of peace. What is that?  Where is the gospel found?  The Word. Romans 10:15. “How beautiful are the feet of those who preach the gospel of peace…” 
•Shield of Faith. Where do we get faith?  The Word. Romans 10:17. “So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God.” Faith=Hearing Word
•The Helmet of Salvation. Why do we need a helmet? To protect our minds. How do we protect our minds? II Corinthians 10:5. “…taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ.” Christ=Word
•Sword of the Spirit. Ephesians 6:17 clearly tells us what this is. “…and the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God.”  Sword=Word

Paul says four times in this passage to “STAND.” The only way we can stand in these days is to be in the Word of God daily! We need to read it, hear it, meditate on it, eat it, digest it, speak it, believe it, hold on to it, use it against the enemy. 

But if we’re not in the Word, we’ll fall…and probably fall for anything. We won’t know what is right, what is true, how to guard our minds, how to share the truth, not how to defeat the enemy.  

STAND: Be fixed in your mind. Set. Make firm. Fix. Establish. Be kept in place. Sustain the force and authority of the Word. Be balanced. Be firm and immovable. Be of a steadfast mind. Don’t waiver. Don’t hesitate. 

Saturday, October 1, 2022

God said…



Have you ever wondered what God said over you when you were created?

In Luke 1, God declared, through angels, who John the Baptist and Jesus would be—before they were even conceived. Those words revealed their purpose on earth. 

What did God declare over you and me?
Maybe we should ask Him. He has a kingdom purpose for us. And it’s always about Him.  

Sunday, September 18, 2022

One Week Left



What if God told you that you only had one week left to live? How would you live this next week? Would you:
  • Spend money?
  • Give everything away?
  • Go see family or friends?
  • Go somewhere you’ve always wanted to go but have never been?
  • Eat anything and everything?
  • Go to your special place?
  • Invest for kids or grandkids?
  • Sleep?
  • Tell as many people you can about the life-changing love and grace of Jesus?
What will you do this week?

Tuesday, September 13, 2022

Burdens



Are you carrying heavy burdens?  Martha was. She was trying to feed a crowd and her sister, who usually helped her, was sitting at Jesus’ feet. Not helping.  

Can’t you just picture Martha? In the kitchen stirring a pot, counting heads, pulling things out of the cupboard and fretting. Was there enough food? Did she need to cut food into smaller portions? Were there enough plates? She knew there wasn’t enough help!

She complained…to Jesus. And he gently rebuked her. She was burdened about many things (the WRONG things)and was missing the whole point! The most important thing was what Mary had found—worshiping him, listening to his teaching—and just sitting at his feet.  

Are my burdens his burdens? What have I taken on that he hasn’t told me to take on? Am I worrying instead of worshiping? Have I assumed and not listened? Have I chosen to be busy instead of sitting with him?

How many of my burdens have I created?

Thursday, September 1, 2022

Birth Pains



Matthew 24 talks about wars, rumors of wars, famines, pestilences, and earthquakes…and then it says these are the beginning of birth pains. Any woman who’s delivered a baby knows the beginning of birth pains is nothing. Ask her about the last 30 minutes of labor!  The pressure and pain are intense.  

Recently, I’ve been asking others, “Can you feel the intensity of the spiritual atmospheric pressure?”  And then I read Matthew 24:8 this morning, “All these are the beginning of sorrows (Greek: birth pains).” It’s the pressure of birth pains. 

Have you talked to others? Do you see the severity of our day? It seems everyone is in a fierce battle. And then there’s the battle for the souls of men. I don’t want anyone left behind when Jesus comes!

The labor pains before the coming of Christ have intensified!  Prophecy is being fulfilled.  I can only hope and pray our “birth” into the heavenly realm is soon!  Come quickly, Lord Jesus!

Monday, August 29, 2022

Food & Faith


What does food have to do with faith? Apparently a lot. Paul told Timothy that in the last days, people would depart from the faith and listen to deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons. What would those doctrines be?  
1. Forbidding to marry
2. Abstaining from certain foods

Paul then goes on to say that every created thing is good and nothing should be refused. He said it’s sanctified (separated from profane things and dedicated to God) by prayer and thanksgiving. This is why we pray and bless our food. I mean…really pray and bless.  Not a perfunctory prayer at the table.   

So where do our doctrines about food come from?  Either the Word of God…or demons. We should examine what we believe.  


Saturday, August 20, 2022

Tragedies



We’ve faced some tragedies recently, haven’t we?  Covid changed our world! We experienced being quarantined, illness, loneliness, changing friendships, churches changing, food shortages, and skyrocketing gas prices—all while our 401K shrunk.  

Our world changed overnight. We changed. People began experiencing anxiety and depression. Counselors’ schedules were full. We began trying to make sense of all that was happening…because we were shaken. 

I believe Jesus is coming back very soon and will take all of those who have accepted him as their savior—and committed their lives to following him—to heaven. Those who haven’t chosen to follow him will be left behind.  

Here’s what I know. If you were shaken these past two years because of Covid and its effects, you will definitely be overwhelmed after millions of people are missing. One tragedy after another will take place. The establishment of the Antichrist, lawlessness, people killing one another, worldwide earthquakes, 1/4 of the people on earth killed by famines and plagues. Things will keep coming. You won’t have time to recover from one tragedy before another hits! If you never choose to follow Jesus, you will spend an eternity in hell with perpetual trauma and isolation. 

There is a solution: give your life to Jesus now. Admit your sin and ask his forgiveness. Follow him! Give up control and give him control of your life. Make him the boss of your life. And get in the Word—the Bible!!  You won’t grow or change unless you do. Ask the Holy Spirit to teach you. He will. 

Your life doesn’t have to be controlled by tragedy.  Trust Jesus—and let him have complete control of your life. His ways are higher (and better) than our ways!


Monday, August 1, 2022

Who is Your Giant?



Who is your giant? Is it a person, fear, anger, lust, the future, hopelessness, a job, expectations, control, or something else? David killed his giant…how do we kill ours?

David had already been anointed king but hadn’t come into that position yet. Instead, he was a shepherd boy (probably 15-years-old) keeping his father’s sheep. At that same time, the Spirit of God came on him (the Spirit didn’t indwell people in the Old Testament). He had plenty of time to practice using his sing shot and had successfully killed a lion and bear—and probably lots of other wild animals. His father sent him to check on his three older brothers who’d gone to battle against the Philistines. 

When David got to the battle site, Goliath was doing what he’d done for the past 40 days—day and night: he was taunting and challenging the Israelites—daring them to fight him. The reason he could do that is because he was around 9 feet tall! He was a giant with at least two giant brothers. The Israelites were trembling in fear—including King Saul. They’d had forty days of the same message of death and destruction…and did nothing. David heard that message one time and stepped up to the challenge of fighting Goliath. David knew Goliath wasn’t defying the Israelites…he was defying God. David went into battle (when other, older men were too fearful) and killed Goliath that day. (Read the full, exciting story in I Samuel 16-18)

What does this story have to do with us? The same tactics are used today by our enemy. Satan and his demons speak to our minds daily—in fact, many times a day. They want to destroy us. So they use fear, control, hopelessness, and all those other things to try to bring us to our knees. The truth is, they’re defying our God. They hate him so much, they don’t want one Christian left standing. So they assault our minds day after day. 

We need to do what David did. Take a stand. Take that thought captive to the obedience of Jesus Christ the first time you hear it! David didn’t mess around like the rest of Israel who listened twice a day for forty days. Don’t you see that if you listen that long, you become brainwashed and it leaves you cowering in fear?! That’s Satan’s intent. He wants to bind you in fear and destroy you. 

We are to take those thoughts captive by obeying Jesus. And as a believer, you have authority over Satan and his demons. Tell them to leave!! We are overcomers by the blood of the Lamb (salvation) and the word of our testimony (speaking truth). (Revelation 12:11)  Don’t tolerate the lies that come into your mind. Quote scripture to your enemy—he hates it! Be like David and destroy the enemy the FIRST time you hear his lies.

Kill those giants!

Saturday, July 30, 2022

Go Back to the Basics


It’s so easy to get overwhelmed with life, with disappointments, with sin, with discouragements—and all the rest. What do we do? Where do we go? To whom do we turn?

Go back to the basics.  
  • Read your Bible. Even read it out loud.  Your own ears need to HEAR it! The Word of God is our authority, our help, our counsel, our encouragement.  
  • Pray. God knows it all, but he wants to hear from you. Tell him your innermost secrets and fears. Call on prayer warriors to pray with you—and over you.  
  • Listen.  Listen to God’s voice.  Seek wise counsel. Go to a Christian counselor. 
  • Ask God for TRUTH! Knowing the truth sets us free. We often avoid truth—and don’t want to hear it. But asking God for truth should be a daily request—especially in the day in which we live!!
  • Take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ. This is so important. Satan speaks to us in first person singular—“I.”  He doesn’t say, “Becky, you’re stupid!”  He’s the great deceiver.  He says, “I am stupid”—so you think it’s your own thoughts!!  Examine every thought. Pull it out of your mind and look at it.  Is it negative, derogatory, an accusation, a temptation, willful, stubborn, ugly?  That’s the enemy!  Toss that thought to the pit of hell where it belongs! Fill your mind with scripture, spiritual songs, and TRUTH!! Don’t let the enemy have free reign in your mind. He only wants to take your mind on a spiral towards destruction.  
Going back to these basics can set you free. Your circumstances may not change overnight, but your frame of mind can change day-by-day. How do I know?  God has done it in my own life. Any time I’ve hit bottom emotionally and spiritually, I go back to the basics. They are life-giving.  

And God wants to give you life abundantly.  

Tuesday, July 26, 2022

Waiting



What does God teach us in the waiting?
  1. To be patient
  2. To quiet your heart
  3. Gentleness
  4. To hear God
  5. To not get ahead of God
  6. To learn how to strategize 
  7. To grow your faith
  8. To learn how to help others as you wait
  9. To occupy
  10. To believe God and trust His heart
  11. Submission
  12. To be more concerned for others
  13. To grow in love
  14. Obedience
  15. Peace
  16. A different view or viewpoint
  17. Joy
  18. Self-control and dying to self
  19. Fruitfulness
  20. Growth
  21. To keep in step with the Spirit of God
I’ve been in many waiting rooms. It’s not particularly fun. It has certainly stretched me! Today, I read about Saul not waiting for Samuel to come make a sacrifice—he unlawfully made the sacrifice himself. His act of impatience cost him the kingdom. 

What has my impatience cost me? Mostly, growth in obedience. A lot of times, peace—because my heart stays all stirred up. Sometimes, a place of usefulness in the kingdom of God because I refuse to submit. 

What have I learned in the waiting?  That God’s way is best—and worth waiting for. 

What have you learned in the waiting?

Monday, July 25, 2022

Asking for a King



Israel wanted a king. The trouble with that is that they already had a King—God! 

How many times have I done that? I may not desire a literal king to reign over me. Oh no! I want to be my own king!! God recently revealed my own heart to me: I don’t like to be told what to do. Wow. 

It’s kind of the American way—or maybe the way of the world now. We want to do whatever makes us happy. We don’t want to serve others. We don’t even want to serve God. We bristle when anyone tries to instruct us—or we just tune them out. Or is that just me??

After the people repented, Samuel told them, “You’ve done wickedly, but don’t turn away from following God. Instead, serve him with all of your heart.” That’s what we’re prone to do, isn’t it? When confronted with sin, we shrug our shoulders and give up. We think, “I can’t do this perfectly—I might as well give up.”

Don’t give up! Like I had to do, repent of your pride and insolence. Give God your heart!! Submit to him and follow him with everything you have. 

Submit to your one true King—God. 

Saturday, July 23, 2022

Have You Been Told You’re Not Enough?



Gideon’s & Saul’s stories are so similar.  The Angel of the Lord found Gideon hiding in the winepress sifting wheat for fear of his enemies.  When the Lord found him there, he said, “Hail, Mighty Warrior!”  He didn’t seem very mighty, did he?

Saul had been told by Samuel he would be king. But as  each tribe was brought before Samuel for God to show Israel who would be king, Saul couldn’t be found.  He was hiding with the luggage! It doesn’t sound very kingly, does it?

Why did both men appear so insecure?  Here’s their answer. Gideon said, “Oh my Lord, how can I save Israel?  My clan is the weakest in Manasseh and I am the least in my father’s house.”  Saul said, “Am I not a Benjamite, of the smallest of the tribes of Israel, and my family the least of all the families of the tribe?”

Gideon came from the smallest tribe—by the number of men.  Saul came from the youngest brother of the tribes of Israel. But somehow, from all of that, they believed they were nobodies!  Satan’s tactics haven’t changed, have they?

Who did God say they were?  God said Gideon was a mighty warrior!!  And Saul?  God said he was a king!!

Who does God say YOU are?  Come in agreement with Him!  You are more than enough with God. 

Thursday, July 21, 2022

How Effective are You?



Israel was worshiping idols…again. They began regretting what they’d done and became sorrowful about the state of their lives. Samuel spoke to them and instructed them to get rid of their idols and come together so he could pray for them. They did. But the Philistines heard they were all together and came against them. Samuel cried out to God on behalf of Israel and offered a sacrifice and God sent thunder so loud that it confused the Philistines and they were overcome. I Samuel 7:13 says, “And the hand of the Lord was against the Philistines all the days of Samuel.”

Why was Samuel so effective?
1. He obeyed God. He was doing what God called him to do. He was judging Israel. 
2. He called for repentance. He told Israel to return to the Lord with all their hearts. 
3. He wasn’t soft on sin. He pointed out exactly what sin they were involved in—worshiping Ashteroth & Baal.  
4. He knew how to approach God. He drew water and poured it out before the Lord. All of Israel fasted. He offered a lamb as a sacrifice. He kept crying out to God on Israel’s behalf. 
5. When God answered his prayers, he set up a stone of remembrance.  

Samuel was effective, faithful, persistent, and obedient. Because of that, God was against his enemies all the days of his life. 

God, help me to be effective, faithful, persistent, and obedient. 

Tuesday, July 19, 2022

God’s Power in Us!



The ark of the covenant carried the presence of God.  If we are followers of Jesus and have given him our hearts, we have become the temple of God and He lives in us!  We carry His presence everywhere we go.  

What does that even mean?  In I Samuel 5, the Philistines stole the ark of the covenant and took it to their temple and set it by their idol, Dagon.  The next morning, Dagon had fallen on its face before the ark.  The people set it back up.  The next morning, Dagon had fallen again and its head and hands had broken off—before the ark.  And the Lord struck the people with tumors everywhere they took the ark until the ark was returned to Israel. 

I think we’re completely unaware of everything that happens as we carry the presence of God into a room. Do demons tremble? Do they have to bow in the presence of God in us? Are they broken in pieces and rendered powerless? Does God in us change the atmosphere?

Or are we so filled with self that God in us is veiled? Do demons mock and laugh? I’m pretty sure demons are more aware of God’s power in us than we are!

Cleanse us, Father. Make us a holy people—set apart to do Your purpose! Make us the pure bride of Christ as we carry your name and presence everywhere we go. Let us walk in Your power. In Jesus’ name, amen. 

Thursday, July 14, 2022

A Tragic Story



Judges 19 holds a tragic story. A Levite had a concubine who ran away. He went to her father’s house to bring her home. On the way home, they stopped in Gibeah to spend the night because this town was of the tribe of Benjamin—relatives.  That night, perverse men came banging on the door of the home where they were staying, wanting sex with this Levite. Instead, he gave them his concubine.  She was raped all night by a group of men…and died.  

I’ve always hated this story and focused on the injustice and brutality of this woman. But today, I saw something else. In chapter 17, it says, “In those days, there was no king in Israel; everyone did what was right in his own eyes.” Apparently, this Levite gave his concubine (instead of himself) to these men because it seemed right and fair in his eyes. 

And then I saw the most tragic part of this story: these perverse men were God’s people. They were from the tribe of Benjamin. This Levite was from the priestly tribe of Levi! They had all been a part of God’s deliverance! But from the time of Joshua until this Levite, worshiping and honoring God had been forgotten and “they did what was right in their own eyes.” They had all become perverse. 

Doesn’t it seem people today are “doing what is right in their own eyes?” God wants our story to end differently. He is our King! And he’s given us the right way to live. It’s our duty to read the Word of God and obey it—and then to train our children to honor God.  Otherwise, we’ll have our own tragic story. 

Saturday, July 9, 2022

Patterns

 

This morning, I was reading about Samson in Judges 14. He’d found a girl he wanted to marry. At the feast, he posed a riddle to the 30 young groomsmen and promised them a change of clothes if they could solve his riddle.  If they didn’t solve it, they had to give him 30 changes of clothing. They couldn’t solve it.  But they threatened his fiancé and she cajoled Samson until he relented and gave her the answer.  She told the groomsmen and Samson then killed 30 men of Ashkelon and gave their clothing to these groomsmen.  

My thought was this…
This became a pattern in Samson’s life.  He later did the same thing with Delilah!   He told her the secret of his strength when she seduced him and then lost that strength when she cut his hair. 

What is a pattern in my life?!?

I only had to ask the question…and God quickly answered.  

Thursday, July 7, 2022

Finishing Well


           Ephod which only the high priest wore.  

I began seriously reading and studying the Bible in my 30’s.  And the more I read, the more I realized very few people finished well.  They did great things…but then gave in to pride or other sins.  Gideon is an example.  

The Angel of the Lord found Gideon hiding in the winepress threshing wheat so the enemy wouldn’t swoop in and steal the food. (Think A Bug’s Life). He was called out, “Hail Mighty Warrior!”  His name means mighty warrior.  The Angel of the Lord told him, “Go in this strength of yours and you shall save Israel from the hand of the Midianites.”   And he did through several valiant, miraculous battles.  But at the end of the last battle, the people wanted to make him king and he refused saying God was their king.  But in the next breath, he asked for their gold earrings and made an ephod and “all Israel played the harlot with it. It became a snare to Gideon and his house.”

How did he have valiant victories only to end poorly?  I believe it’s because he began depending on his own strength instead of God’s strength. Did he finally embrace who God created him to be (valiant warrior) only to overextend his strength?  Or maybe he began serving money instead of God. Either way…he lost focus.  

It’s imperative we stay in the Word and pursue truth to finish well. We have to fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith.  We’ll fail when we think we’ve got everything under control.  

Let’s ask God to help us finish well!

Tuesday, July 5, 2022

Spiritual Storm



Five years ago, I was opening our metal storm door so I could set my plants outside to catch the falling rain. When I touched the handle, every hair on my body stood at attention!! At that same moment lightening struck and thunder crashed!  The next morning, Andy found lightening had struck our church steeple only yards away.  

Have you ever felt that electricity in the air? It’s crazy!! How about spiritually? I’m feeling it now. It seems every cell of my body is standing at attention waiting to see what is about to happen.  II Timothy 3:1 tells us, “But know this that in the last days perilous times will come.” The Greek word for “perilous” means “hard to do, hard to bear, dangerous, troublesome, harsh, fierce, savage.” It infers our strength will be reduced.  

It’s coming. Stay alert spiritually. Don’t discount those feelings of intensity, unusual tiredness, feelings of chaos, and of being overwhelmed. Satan is the prince of the power of the air for a short time and he’s striking because his day is almost over. His frenzied activity is increasing. 

Stay in the Word. Stay focused on Jesus. Be still. Quit pushing. Wait on God. Listen for his voice. 

A storm is coming—but so is Jesus!

In the Center of God’s Will



As pastors and wives (and anyone else), it’s often hard to make decisions when we know it’s going to affect our children.  A move can mean they’re leaving good friends, a wonderful school or teacher, or extended family.  It may not come at a good time or it may affect an important stage of life.  They may resist or even make your life miserable. But remember this…the safest place for your child is for you to be in the center of God’s will.  And you can trust a Father who loves them more than you and is allowing these things for their future and their benefit.  We can’t see into the future, but He can.  And you can trust His heart.  

Friday, June 10, 2022

Are You Fulfilling Prophecy?



Are you fulfilling prophecy—in a negative way? Take a look at these questions and corresponding scriptures. See if any fit.  

1. Have you said, “People have been saying Jesus is coming back for YEARS…and he still hasn’t come!”?  

“Knowing this first: that scoffers will come in the last days, walking according to their own lusts, and saying, ‘Where is the promise of His coming? For since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of creation.’” II Peter 3:3-4

2. Do you refuse to reach out and love your neighbor because of fear? Is there so much evil and craziness in our world that you feel safer locked behind your doors?

And because lawlessness will abound, the love of many will grow cold.” Matthew 24:12

3. Has “take care of myself first” become your motto? Are you consumed with making money or are you impressed with how much you have?

But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money…”  II Timothy 3:1-2

4. Do you call yourself a Christian—but never open your Bible and read it? Is your life powerless spiritually? 

“(In the last days, men will) have a form of godliness but deny its power. And from such people turn away!”  II Timothy 3:5

This is just a short list. I don’t believe we have much time before Jesus comes back. Matthew 24:40-42 says, “Then two men will be in the field: one will be taken and the other left. Two women will be grinding at the mill: one will be taken and the other left. Watch therefore, for you do not know what hour your Lord is coming.”

He’s coming soon! Are you ready? Or will you be left behind? Jesus very clearly said, “Follow Me!” And he meant we should follow him with all of our hearts—and watch for his soon return!

Thursday, June 9, 2022

What Does God Hate?



As Moses gives his last instructions to Israel, he tells them in Deuteronomy 16 that they should never set up Asherah poles for worship…because God hates them.  Asherah poles were dedicated to worshiping the fertility goddess, Asherah.  Let’s just say pornography didn’t start in the 20th century. It’s an ancient abomination.  

So God hates when we worship other gods.  What else does he hate?   The next chapter says he detests when Israel brings sick or defective animal sacrifices. He demands the best. Are we offering our best? Or do we offer half-hearted sacrifices of our time and money?

Proverbs 6 gives us a list of the seven things God hates most:
1. Haughty eyes
2. A lying tongue
3. Hands that kill the innocent
4. A heart that plots evil 
5. Feet that race to do wrong
6. A false witness who lies
7. A person who stirs up conflict in a community

Moses goes on to tell the people that some day they may desire to have a king. That king should be a man God chooses. He is not to accumulate wealth or wives because both will turn his heart from God. And to keep his heart after God, he should write God’s instructions on a scroll and read them daily. 

There’s our key! In order to obey God, we have to know his instructions. And then we should read them daily. They’re all written in His Word. The only way to avoid doing the things God hates is to READ THE BIBLE DAILY. 

I don’t want to do the things God hates. Do you?

God, help us! We want to obey You and Your Word that You’ve given us. Let it guide us with its light. Let it keep us from evil. Tie it about our neck and foreheads so we’re constantly aware of it. We want to please You, God! Keep us from the things You hate. In Jesus’ name, amen.  


Monday, June 6, 2022

Giving


This is an excerpt from Randy Alcorn’s book, The Treasure Principle. If you haven’t read it, you should! As I was re-reading it, this stuck out to me and I began remembering… 

Andy & I have never hidden the fact that we were poor money managers. But in God’s beautiful plan, He put wealthy people in our lives. They never preached at us (but could have)… they were just givers. Many times, Andy & I were the blessed receivers. It was hard at times. Embarrassing at times. But we were watching everything they did. We saw how they gave and how God blessed them so they could give more. And they gave freely—without restraint. And it created a hunger in us. 

We began giving…small, at first. It was rewarding and FUN—exciting, actually!! We got completely out of debt so we could give more. And we did. We’ve given to mission trips, to people who needed food, to people with medical needs, and especially when God says, “Give to this person!” 

One time stands out in my mind. Andy & I had gone to Olive Garden. It was right before the nation-wide Covid shutdown. I never have cash, but I did that day. Our waitress was short with us and we seldom saw her. But God whispered in my heart to give her all of my cash. When she brought our ticket, Andy handed her the credit card to pay for our meal and I handed her the cash. She began crying. Because restaurants were closing down the next day, she was going to be without a job. (I only wished I’d had more cash!) But I posted the story on Facebook and a friend offered her a job at a grocery store. We were able to contact her through Olive Garden and tell her to go apply for the job!

Giving is God’s way. He gives money to us to manage it for Him. It’s all His!! And we get to share it where He wants it used. I encourage you to give. Start with a tithe to your church—and give it with a grateful and cheerful heart! And then give to the needs of others. Give where God tells you to give. Give extravagantly!! You’ll get your socks blessed off!!

Saturday, June 4, 2022

Do You Feel “Good?”



If we were honest, most of us would say we’re a pretty good person. But compared to what?  Other people?

Moses was giving his farewell speech to the people of Israel—the people he’d led through the wilderness for over 40 years. The people who had complained about the lack of food and water, the people who had built a golden calf to worship, the people who were afraid to take possession of the Promised Land after God had said he was giving it to them, the people who longed for Egypt—where they’d been slaves, the people who complained endlessly.  

And Moses told them this: “You must recognize that the Lord your God is not giving you this good land because you are good, for you are not—you are a stubborn people.”  The reason He gave them this land was to fulfill His promise to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. God had promised them a land flowing with milk and honey—and they were about to step into that Promised Land.  

It’s not because of our goodness…but His.  

“Why ask me about what is good?” Jesus replied. “There is only One who is good. But to answer your question—if you want to receive eternal life, keep the commandments.”
Matthew 19:16

Monday, May 30, 2022

Investigate for Truth


Proverbs 18:17 (TLB) says, “ Any story sounds true until someone tells the other side and sets the record straight.” 

Have you noticed how things are changing around us? People seem angry. They’ve become very vocal about anything and everything. They jump to conclusions without any investigation. They may even begin defending one side without hearing the other side. I think our culture has been wildly forged by social media where we quickly jump to conclusions and judgments. We hear one side of the story without ever asking questions or checking the facts with the other people involved. 

We need to use wisdom, don’t we? These are some questions we can ask or things we can tell ourselves in these situations:

1. Holy Spirit, lead me to the truth. 
2. Is the person telling me this reliable?
3. I need to control my emotions until I know the truth. 
4. What IS the truth?
5. Have I heard the other side of the story?
6. Do I really want the truth..or to just give my opinion?
7. Does this even involve me? Why HAVE I been involved? Am I part of the problem or part of the solution?  If not, this doesn’t concern me. 

We definitely need to spend time in prayer and allow God to check our emotions, motives, and heart. One thing we should never do is gossip—even as a prayer request. That only compounds the problem and makes us complicit in any half-truths. God told us through James, Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.”  James 1:19

Let’s investigate for truth.  

Thursday, May 26, 2022

Bob


Today is my big brother’s 69th birthday.  His name is Bob.  Some of you may know him as Bobby (he tried to change that in high school). He died of cancer 7 years ago. (Wow!)

There’s not a girl in the world who had a better big brother than me.  Bob became my protector when I was two.  We’d gone to spend the night with our grandparents and I got homesick and began crying—wanting to go home.  My granddad threatened to spank me and Bob came and sat beside me and put his arm around me. Something was cemented in our relationship that day. He was my hero…and that never changed.  

Bob sold the Grit newspaper door-to-door when he was about 6 or 7.  He’d take me along as we’d walk for blocks and collect a nickel at those doors.  That was his first job.  He always had a few extra coins when we’d walk to “the little store” to buy candy. When he was nine, he began a newspaper route.  By the time he was twelve, he’d saved enough money to buy our family a stereo—one of those that came in a cabinet like a piece of furniture.  We played records almost every night!

A friend and I got in an argument over whose older brother was the toughest. (I knew mine was)  We went and got our brothers (who were the same age) and they fought it out.  Mine won. Mom babysat our cousins one summer and we would walk to the library at least once a week—across a field of weeds and stickers—in our flip-flops. Of course, we went barefoot most of the time, so I always forget my shoes.  Bob would invariably give me a piggy back ride across that field.  

As Bob got older, he worked at Heard & Jones Pharmacy. He was always bringing gifts home for us.  He bought my first set of electric curlers when they first hit the market! After that job, he went to work for I.W. Tinney Lumber Co. That job set his career in motion. Bob became a builder—actually, a craftsman.  

My big brother was my confidante.  He listened to all of my dating woes. We even went on a few double-dates. He was also my warning signal.  He put his foot down a couple of times and told me I couldn’t date a certain guy—they were no good. Once a guy took me to a bar on a date and I asked him if we could go somewhere else.  I was afraid if Bob heard about it, I’d never get to date again!

As Bob was dying, he wouldn’t allow me to see him because of the spreading cancer.  So we began exchanging emails. I treasure those emails. I thanked him for being such a good big brother.  He was actually my first picture of Jesus—the big brother who rescues us.  His reply?  “ Thank you so much for the compliments but I think you must have me confused with someone else because I CERTAINLY don't walk on water.”

A good big brother…the BEST!

God, would you give Bob a hug from me today and tell him, “Happy Birthday!”?

Wednesday, May 25, 2022

Move from this Mountain



God told Moses and the Israelites at Mount Sinai, “You have stayed at this mountain long enough. It is time to break camp and move on.”

At which mountain are you camped? It may not be a literal, physical mountain—but it could be a place. Or it may be an emotional, mental, or spiritual mountain. It may be something someone said to you—or how they wronged you. Have you camped there and not moved?

God went on to tell them that he’d given them the  land before them. It was the land promised to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. He was about to fulfill THE GREAT PROMISE. Were there giants ahead?  Yes. But God promised to deliver the land to his people. In fact, he told them not to be afraid!  It was time to break camp and GO!!

Break camp. Break the ties holding you back. Put out the fires. Turn your back on the old way of life and set your face toward the promise of God.  Go.in.and.possess.the.promise. FEARLESSLY! It’s yours!  He’s given it to you. He’s promised. And it’s fruitful.  

GO! You’ve stayed at this mountain long enough.  

Tuesday, May 24, 2022

Your Boundaries



“And He made from one man every nation of mankind to live on the face of the earth, having determined their appointed times and the boundaries of their lands and territories.”  Acts 17:26

Did you know that God has not only numbered every day of your life…but he’s also established the boundaries of  where you’ll live?  Have you ever wondered why you’re drawn to the mountains or the sea?  Or have you driven through a place and wondered how in the world people could live there? I believe God puts places in your heart. 

Or you may be just as surprised as me to end up in a place you least expected! But then can’t imagine missing the experience!  God put you there.  It is  part of the boundaries he gave you. I think he even delights to expand our boundaries!

Friday, May 20, 2022

Jesus, the Interceder



Last night, I was broken.  God had put his finger on a sin in my life. I don’t want to be that way. And I was weeping with repentance, grief, and frustration with myself.  And I cried out, “JESUS!!!  Pray for me!!!”  

“My little children (believers, dear ones), I am writing you these things so that you will not sin and violate God’s law. And if anyone sins, we have an Advocate [who will intercede for us] with the Father: Jesus Christ the righteous [the upright, the just One, who conforms to the Father’s will in every way—purpose, thought, and action].”  I John 2:1 AMP

I was instantly reminded of this verse. And then a sweet memory flooded my mind.  A woman (who is at home with Jesus now) who dealt with the same issue as me—but was filled with grace.  That memory washed over me like liquid honey.  

Instantly, I knew.  I knew the way out…the way to overcome. 

Thank you, Jesus!   Thank you for interceding for me last night.  Thank you for the light for my path.

Monday, May 2, 2022

Looking Ahead




God had just told the Israelites that, because of their disobedience and complaining hearts, they were going to have to wander in the wilderness for 40 years and that everyone older than 20 would die there.  

But in his next breath, he told Moses, “ Say to the Israelites, When you come into the land where you are to live, which I am giving you…” (Numbers 15:2)

God didn’t dwell on the disobedience and punishment of the Israelites.  He corrected them and pointed them towards the future.  He wanted them to LOOK AHEAD! And the best way to do that was to give them instructions for their future.  

What a great example for us—and for us as parents.  Satan wants us to think it’s all over when we mess up. God wants us to know there’s a future to fulfill in front of us. 

Keep walking…keep obeying and pleasing God.  

Keep looking ahead!!

Sunday, May 1, 2022

Face Your Giants



How tall were the giants of Anak?  We don’t know for sure…the Bible doesn’t say.  But when the 12 spies came back with their report for Moses & Aaron, 10 of them told them they couldn’t possess the land because of these giants!  Only Caleb & Joshua were ready to take the land!  Caleb said, “We should go up and take possession of the land, for we can certainly do it.”  Because the other 10 spies created a panic of doubt and fear and faithlessness, God took their lives.  The people were forced to wander the wilderness for 40 years and every person over 20 years of age died.  

It’s so easy to sit back and say, “Why didn’t they BELIEVE?  They’d seen God perform miracle after miracle. 

But how many giants have stopped you lately?  I’ll name a few of my own: bad news, cultural tolerance, rejection, and expectations.  I didn’t have to think back very far—those giants have stopped me from possessing God’s promises in the last few months!  Our giants may look different than those of Anak, but they present themselves in a huge way—stopping us in our tracks!!

I’m tired of being intimidated by these giants (which are really demonic thoughts)!  I’m ready to walk in faith and believe God for his promises!!   Who’s in?